Synopsis
Covers the whole plot, including the ending.
- Difficulty
- Easy
- Pacing
- Moderate
- Mood
- Heartwarming, Reflective, Hopeful, Authentic
- Read it if
- You enjoy stories about breaking free from societal expectations and finding your true self, with a focus on a developing young adult romance.
- Skip it if
- You prefer fast-paced thrillers or stories without a strong emphasis on character internal struggles and relationship dynamics.
Playing Nice Plot Summary
Covers the whole plot, including the ending.
The Perfect Façade
Martina 'Marty' Hart goes through her junior year at Minster High, a small town where she is known as the 'nicest' girl. She gets good grades, volunteers, and participates in many school activities, including the Welcoming Committee and decorating for dances. Her controlling mother largely created this image, pushing Marty toward a conventional future at the University of Michigan. Marty's best friend, Sarah, supports this image, often subtly undermining Marty while staying superficially close. Despite her outward success, Marty feels a growing restlessness and a strong desire to escape her perfect life, which feels more like a prison than a comfort.
A New Arrival
The usual routine of Minster High breaks with the arrival of Lil Hatfield, a new transfer student. Lil is the opposite of everything Minster, and Marty, represents. She wears black, listens to punk music, smokes, and has a rebellious manner. Her appearance and attitude immediately make her an outsider and a topic of intense gossip among students. Marty, assigned to the Welcoming Committee, must show Lil around. While at first cautious, Marty finds herself drawn to Lil's authenticity and defiance, a sharp contrast to her peers' carefully crafted personas and her own.
First Encounters and Growing Curiosity
Marty's attempts to welcome Lil are met with a mix of indifference and sharp wit from Lil. Despite the tension, Marty is captivated by Lil's refusal to conform. She observes Lil's solitary nature and how she handles the stares and whispers of other students. Marty starts to question her own obedience to the town's social rules, seeing in Lil a freedom she secretly wants. This initial curiosity slowly turns into a deeper interest as Marty realizes Lil’s rebellious exterior might be a shield for something more complex and vulnerable. Their conversations, though often short, begin to challenge Marty's earlier ideas.
Unveiling Secrets
As Marty and Lil spend more time together, Lil reluctantly starts to share parts of her past. Marty learns that Lil and her mother live in a run-down trailer park and have moved often, usually because of difficult situations. Lil hints at a traumatic event in her previous town, which has left her deeply hurt and distrustful. This explains Lil's guardedness and cynical view of the world. Marty feels growing empathy for Lil and wants to protect her from Minster's judgment, even as she deals with the implications of associating with someone so openly disliked.
An Unexpected Connection
Marty and Lil's bond grows stronger as they share more personal details. Marty tells Lil about her mother's pressure and her unhappiness with her 'perfect' life. Lil, in turn, shares more about her struggles and fears. Their conversations often happen away from school, in hidden spots or at Lil's trailer, creating a sense of secrecy and closeness. Marty finds comfort and real connection with Lil, something she rarely experiences with Sarah or her other friends. This developing friendship becomes a safe space for both girls to drop their facades and be more authentic with each other.
The Hot Shot Dance and Public Humiliation
The annual Hot Shot fall hunting celebration dance becomes a turning point. Despite Marty's warnings, Lil attends, trying to fit in for Marty's sake. However, the town's prejudice against Lil results in a cruel act of public humiliation, planned by some popular students, including Sarah. Lil faces vicious online bullying and social exclusion, which intensifies during the dance. Marty sees the cruelty firsthand and is torn between wanting to defend Lil and fearing she will alienate herself from her social circle. This event forces Marty to confront the true nature of her town and her 'friends'.
Marty's Reckoning
After the dance, Marty can no longer ignore the injustice Lil faces. She confronts Sarah about her part in the bullying and starts to distance herself from her old friendships' superficiality. Marty takes steps to support Lil, offering comfort and solidarity. This act of defiance is a significant moment for Marty, marking her first real step toward freedom. She begins to prioritize her own moral compass over her mother's expectations and the town's social rules, understanding that true kindness means standing up for what is right, even if it means sacrificing her perfect image.
A Developing Romance
As Marty continues to support Lil, their bond deepens beyond friendship. The shared vulnerability, mutual understanding, and fierce loyalty they show each other develop into romantic feelings. Marty realizes she is falling in love with Lil, a realization that is both exciting and scary given Minster's conservative nature. Lil, who has been cautious and closed off, slowly allows herself to return Marty's feelings. Their relationship becomes a secret haven, a place where both girls can be completely themselves without judgment, further solidifying Marty's commitment to her newfound authenticity.
Facing Consequences and Personal Growth
Marty's change in priorities and her open association with Lil cause conflict with her mother and the loss of her 'nice girl' reputation. She faces criticism and judgment from former friends and community members. However, these challenges only strengthen Marty's resolve. She learns to handle the disapproval, finding strength in her authentic self and her love for Lil. Marty begins to explore her own interests and desires, independent of outside expectations. This period marks her significant personal growth as she sheds the skin of the girl she was expected to be and embraces the person she truly is.
A Glimmer of Hope
Toward the end of the school year, Marty and Lil, now openly a couple to those they trust, start making plans for their future. They talk about leaving Minster after graduation, exploring colleges or opportunities that will allow them to be themselves without fear of judgment. While the future is uncertain, their shared dreams and unwavering support give them hope and purpose. Marty, no longer pretending to be nice, has found genuine happiness and freedom in being true to herself and loving Lil, promising a future where they can truly break free.
Principal Figures
Martina "Marty" Hart
Protagonist
The 'nice girl' trapped by expectations, who finds her true self through rebellion and love.
Marty is initially presented as the epitome of the perfect small-town girl: intelligent, popular, helpful, and unfailingly polite. This persona, however, is largely a performance dictated by her controlling mother and reinforced by her social circle. Beneath the surface, Marty is restless, yearning for authenticity and a life beyond Minster's rigid expectations. She possesses a deep capacity for empathy and a strong moral compass, which are slowly awakened by Lil's arrival. Her internal conflict between conformity and self-discovery drives much of the narrative.
Relationships: Lil Hatfield (Best friend turned romantic partner; catalyst for Marty's self-discovery.); Marty's Mother (Controlling and demanding, pushing Marty towards a conventional life.); Sarah (Best frenemy; superficially supportive but ultimately undermining and judgmental.)
Lil Hatfield
Love Interest / Catalyst
The rebellious new girl whose authenticity challenges Minster's norms and Marty's life.
Lil is an enigmatic and defiant newcomer to Minster, immediately recognizable by her punk aesthetic and guarded demeanor. She is cynical, sharp-witted, and fiercely independent, having learned to protect herself after a difficult past marked by trauma and frequent moves. Lil's refusal to conform makes her an outcast, but it also makes her deeply authentic. She is initially distrustful of Marty, but slowly opens up, revealing a vulnerable and loyal heart beneath her tough exterior. Her presence forces Marty to confront her own suppressed desires and the superficiality of her world.
Relationships: Martina "Marty" Hart (Romantic partner; the person who sees and accepts Lil for who she truly is.); Lil's Mother (Supportive but struggling; their relationship is a source of both comfort and past trauma.)
Sarah
Antagonist / Supporting
Marty's best frenemy who embodies Minster's judgmental social hierarchy.
Sarah is Marty's long-time best friend, but their relationship is characterized by a subtle power imbalance and passive-aggressive behavior. Sarah is popular, image-conscious, and deeply entrenched in Minster's social norms. She outwardly supports Marty but is quick to judge and undermine anyone who deviates from the accepted path, particularly Lil. Sarah represents the oppressive social pressures and superficiality that Marty struggles against. Her actions, especially her role in Lil's bullying, ultimately force Marty to re-evaluate their friendship and her own values.
Relationships: Martina "Marty" Hart (Best friend turned estranged friend due to conflicting values.)
Marty's Mother
Antagonist / Supporting
A controlling parent who dictates Marty's life path.
Marty's mother is a dominant force in her daughter's life, meticulously planning Marty's future and dictating her image. She values conformity, academic achievement, and social acceptance above all else, pushing Marty towards a conventional life at the University of Michigan. Her intentions, while perhaps rooted in a desire for Marty's success, are ultimately suffocating and prevent Marty from discovering her own desires. She struggles to accept Marty's deviation from her carefully constructed plan, particularly Marty's relationship with Lil.
Relationships: Martina "Marty" Hart (Controlling parent-child relationship; a source of conflict and pressure for Marty.)
Lil's Mother
Supporting
Lil's struggling but supportive parent.
Lil's mother is a background character who, despite her own struggles with poverty and instability, provides a degree of support and understanding for Lil. She has moved frequently with Lil, often due to difficult circumstances, and carries the weight of their past. She is less judgmental than Minster's other adults and allows Lil more freedom, perhaps recognizing Lil's need for independence after their tumultuous life. Her presence highlights the socio-economic differences between Lil and Marty's families.
Relationships: Lil Hatfield (Supportive but strained mother-daughter relationship due to their difficult past.)
Themes & Insights
The Burden of Perfection and Conformity
The novel explores how stifling it is to strive for an ideal image and conform to societal expectations. Marty's junior year is a performance of 'niceness,' dictated by her mother and Minster's small-town values. This theme is clear in Marty's internal thoughts, where she constantly questions her own desires versus what is expected of her. Her participation in school committees and decorating dances, while seemingly helpful, is also part of this perfect facade. Lil's arrival, as someone who rejects conformity, provides a sharp contrast, showing the emotional cost of Marty's 'perfection' and ultimately motivating her to break free.
“It was exhausting, being nice all the time. Like wearing a mask that was slowly fusing to my skin.”
Authenticity vs. Appearance
This theme is central to the story, examining the difference between who people pretend to be and who they truly are. Marty initially lives a life built on appearances, hiding her true feelings behind a carefully constructed 'nice girl' image. Lil, in contrast, embodies authenticity, refusing to hide her past or conform to Minster's social norms, even if it means being ostracized. The novel contrasts Marty's initial fear of revealing her true self with Lil's honesty. Marty's journey is about shedding these pretenses and embracing her genuine self, especially her feelings for Lil, even when it means facing judgment and losing her 'perfect' reputation.
“She didn't try to be anything she wasn't. And that, I realized, was the most terrifying, beautiful thing I'd ever seen.”
Love as a Catalyst for Self-Discovery
The romantic relationship between Marty and Lil is the main reason for Marty's self-discovery and liberation. Marty's initial attraction to Lil comes from recognizing Lil's authenticity, which inspires Marty to seek her own. As their friendship deepens into romance, Marty must confront her deepest fears and desires, particularly her sexual identity. Loving Lil requires Marty to challenge her mother's expectations, defy social norms, and ultimately choose her own happiness and integrity over external approval. This love empowers Marty to leave her 'nice girl' persona and embrace her true self, showing love's power to change.
“Falling for Lil wasn't just about falling in love; it was about falling into myself.”
Bullying and Social Ostracism
The novel shows the harmful effects of bullying and social exclusion, especially through Lil's experience in Minster. Lil is targeted because she is different—her appearance, background, and independent spirit make her an easy scapegoat for the town's prejudices. The bullying appears in both obvious acts, like the public humiliation at the dance, and subtle forms, such as gossip and social exclusion. This theme highlights the cruelty of small-town attitudes and the damage it causes to those who don't fit in. Marty's decision to stand up against the bullying is a key moment in her moral development, challenging her peers' passive acceptance.
“They didn't just hate her; they wanted to erase her, to pretend she never existed.”
Plot Devices & Literary Techniques
The 'Nice Girl' Persona
Marty's carefully constructed public image.
This device refers to Marty's meticulously crafted identity as the perfect, helpful, and agreeable girl. It functions as both a shield and a cage for Marty. As a shield, it protects her from judgment and ensures her social standing. As a cage, it prevents her from expressing her true self, her desires, and her frustrations. The persona is heavily influenced by her mother and the small-town expectations of Minster. The slow dismantling of this persona throughout the novel is central to Marty's character arc, representing her journey towards authenticity and self-liberation.
The New Transfer Student (Lil)
A catalyst for change and disruption.
Lil Hatfield's arrival in Minster serves as a classic plot device to introduce conflict and challenge the established order. As an outsider, she immediately highlights the rigid social norms and prejudices of the town. More importantly, for Marty, Lil acts as a catalyst for self-reflection and change. Lil's authenticity and defiance force Marty to confront her own suppressed desires and the superficiality of her 'nice' life. Without Lil's disruptive presence, Marty might never have questioned her conformity or found the courage to break free from her mother's control and the town's expectations.
Small Town Setting (Minster)
A microcosm of societal pressure and judgment.
Minster, as a small town, functions as a powerful plot device representing a confined, insular world where everyone knows everyone's business and conformity is highly valued. Its limited scope amplifies social pressures, gossip, and the difficulty of escaping established roles. The town's conservative nature and resistance to difference are central to the conflict experienced by both Marty and Lil. The small-town setting emphasizes the suffocating feeling Marty experiences and makes Lil's ostracism more intense, highlighting the challenge of finding authenticity in such an environment and the courage required to leave it behind.
Online Bullying and Gossip
A modern vehicle for social ostracism.
The use of online platforms for bullying and spreading gossip is a contemporary plot device that amplifies the social ostracism experienced by Lil. It allows the cruelty to be widespread, instantaneous, and difficult to escape, extending beyond the physical confines of the school. This device highlights the insidious nature of social media in perpetuating harm and how it can be used to control narratives and reputations. For Marty, witnessing the online bullying forces her to confront the ugly side of her community and the complicity of her 'friends,' ultimately prompting her to take a stand.
Playing Nice Quotes
“I was falling for him, even though I knew it was a bad idea, like skydiving without a parachute.”
“Sometimes the people who are supposed to love you the most are the ones who hurt you the deepest.”
“He had that kind of smile that could make you forget all your problems, even if just for a second.”
“We were all just playing nice, pretending everything was fine, when really, we were crumbling inside.”
“You can't fix someone who doesn't want to be fixed, no matter how much you love them.”
“Grief is a tricky thing. It doesn't just go away; it just changes shape, like a cloud.”
“The hardest part about growing up is realizing that not all stories have happy endings.”
“Silence can be louder than any scream when it's filled with unspoken words.”
“Maybe love isn't about finding the perfect person, but about seeing the imperfections perfectly.”
“We build walls to protect ourselves, but sometimes those walls trap us more than they keep others out.”
“There’s a difference between letting go and giving up. One is freedom, the other is defeat.”
“His eyes held a universe of unspoken things, and I wanted to explore every single one.”
“Sometimes the messiest parts of life are where you find the most beautiful truths.”
“We were all just trying to navigate the minefield of our own hearts, hoping not to blow up.”
Quiz
10 questions on the plot and the characters. Each answer comes with a short explanation.
Question 1
What is the name of the high school Marty attends?
- Minster High
- Minster Academy
- Minster Prep
- Minster Central
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A. Minster High Marty attends Minster High, a key setting in the small town of Minster.
Question 2
What is Marty's full first name?
- Martha
- Martina
- Mary
- Marissa
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B. Martina Marty's full first name is Martina, though she is commonly referred to as Marty.
Question 3
Which university is mentioned as a potential future for Marty, but she feels restless about it?
- Michigan State University
- University of Michigan
- Central Michigan University
- Western Michigan University
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B. University of Michigan Marty is restless about the sororities-and-frats future at the nearby University of Michigan that her mother and Sarah envision for her.
Question 4
What is the name of the new transfer student who catches Marty's attention?
- Lily Hatfield
- Lil Hatfield
- Lila Henderson
- Lillian Harris
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B. Lil Hatfield The new transfer student is Lil Hatfield, and the description specifically notes 'don't call her Lily!'
Question 5
What event does Marty help decorate for, which is described as 'totally awful'?
- The Spring Fling dance
- The Minster Charity Gala
- The Hot Shot fall hunting celebration
- The Winter Wonderland Ball
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C. The Hot Shot fall hunting celebration Marty is involved in putting up decorations for all the dances, including the 'totally awful Hot Shot fall hunting celebration.'
Question 6
Who is described as Marty's 'best frenemy'?
- Lil Hatfield
- Sarah
- Marty's mother
- A teacher at Minster High
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B. Sarah Sarah is identified as Marty's 'best frenemy,' who, along with Marty's mother, has locked her in a 'box.'
Question 7
What is a key characteristic that sets Lil apart from other students in Minster?
- She is an excellent student and athlete.
- She smokes, wears black, and listens to angry punk records.
- She volunteers extensively in the community.
- She comes from a wealthy, influential family.
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B. She smokes, wears black, and listens to angry punk records. Lil is described as being 'different' because 'She smokes, wears black, listens to angry punk records, and lives in a weird trailer with her mother.'
Question 8
What central theme does the book explore regarding Marty's journey?
- The importance of maintaining a perfect reputation at all costs.
- The struggle to break free from expectations and discover one's true self.
- The benefits of conforming to societal norms for happiness.
- The challenges of academic achievement in a small town.
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B. The struggle to break free from expectations and discover one's true self. The book is described as 'the achingly true story of a girl who's been following the rules for so long she's forgotten who she was when she started' and 'about the moments in life when you step out of line, take a chance ... and begin to break free.'
Question 9
What kind of secrets do both Lil and Marty possess?
- Secrets about their academic struggles.
- Secrets that make them targets for gossip and bullying.
- Secrets about their hidden artistic talents.
- Secrets related to their family's wealth.
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B. Secrets that make them targets for gossip and bullying. The synopsis states, 'Lil has secrets—secrets that make her a target for all the gossiping and online bullying Minster can muster. But so does Marty.' This implies their secrets are of a vulnerable nature.
Question 10
What does Marty ultimately see in Lil that she finds appealing?
- Her popularity with the in-crowd.
- Her potential to help Marty achieve better grades.
- Something honest and real.
- Her ability to blend in seamlessly with the Minster community.
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C. Something honest and real. Marty 'sees something different in Lil. Something honest. Something real,' which contrasts with the 'playing nice' persona Marty has maintained.
Playing Nice FAQ
What is the central conflict Marty faces at the beginning of 'Playing Nice'?
Marty Hart is trapped by the persona of being 'nice,' meticulously crafted by her controlling mother and reinforced by her best friend Sarah. This conflict manifests as a deep restlessness and a desire to escape the predetermined path of small-town Minster and a future at the University of Michigan, despite outwardly fulfilling all expectations.
How does Lil Hatfield's arrival disrupt the social dynamics of Minster High and Marty's life specifically?
Lil's unconventional appearance, habits (smoking, punk music), and mysterious background immediately make her an outcast and target for bullying in Minster. For Marty, Lil represents an antithesis to her own 'nice' facade, offering a glimpse of honesty and realness that deeply attracts Marty and provides a catalyst for her own rebellion.
What role does Sarah play in Marty's life and her journey of self-discovery?
Sarah acts as Marty's 'best frenemy,' embodying the societal expectations and pressures that keep Marty in her 'nice' box. Sarah's constant presence and subtle manipulations reinforce Marty's perceived identity, making Sarah a significant obstacle Marty must overcome to truly break free and define herself.
What is the significance of the 'Hot Shot fall hunting celebration' in the novel?
The 'Hot Shot fall hunting celebration' symbolizes the ingrained traditions and conservative values of Minster that Marty finds stifling and even 'totally awful.' Her participation in decorating for such events highlights her performative niceness and her internal conflict with the town's culture.
Beyond her outward rebellion, what deeper struggles does Lil Hatfield represent for Marty?
Lil represents not just rebellion, but also the consequences of being different and the vulnerability that comes with authenticity. Marty is drawn to Lil's honesty but also sees how it makes Lil a target, forcing Marty to confront whether she is brave enough to face similar judgment by embracing her own true self.
How does Marty's involvement with the Welcoming Committee for new students foreshadow her connection with Lil?
Marty's role on the Welcoming Committee positions her as the initial point of contact for new students like Lil, ostensibly to integrate them. However, for Marty, it becomes an unexpected opportunity to connect with someone outside her established social circle, leading to a deeper personal bond rather than just a formal welcome.
What is the nature of the 'secrets' Marty and Lil both possess, and how do they connect the two girls?
While the specific nature of Lil's secrets makes her a target for Minster's gossip, Marty also harbors her own secrets, likely related to her true feelings, desires, and dissatisfaction with her life. These shared experiences of having hidden aspects of themselves create a powerful, unspoken bond and understanding between them.
How does the author use the setting of 'Minster, a small town' to enhance the themes of conformity and breaking free?
Minster's small-town setting intensifies the pressure to conform, as everyone knows everyone else's business, and gossip spreads rapidly. This claustrophobic environment makes Marty's struggle to break free more challenging and her eventual steps towards authenticity more impactful, highlighting the difficulty of escaping a rigid social structure.
What does Marty mean by 'falling in love with the wrong people and not seeing the right ones' in the context of her journey?
This phrase suggests that Marty might initially be attracted to or involved with individuals who reinforce her 'nice' persona or societal expectations, preventing her from seeing those who genuinely understand or challenge her. It hints at potential romantic entanglements that distract her from her true path or from recognizing a more authentic connection.
What psychological impact does Marty's 'controlling mother' have on her development?
Marty's controlling mother has instilled in her a deep-seated need for approval and a fear of deviating from expectations. This has led Marty to suppress her true self, resulting in internal conflict and a sense of inauthenticity that she grapples with throughout the narrative, making her quest for self-discovery an act of rebellion against maternal influence.
How does the phrase 'achingly true story' reflect the emotional depth and realism of the novel?
The phrase 'achingly true story' suggests that the novel delves into the painful yet honest realities of adolescence, self-discovery, and the struggle for authenticity. It implies a narrative that resonates deeply with readers because it portrays genuine emotional experiences and the often-difficult process of finding oneself.
What is the significance of Lil listening to 'angry punk records'?
Lil's preference for 'angry punk records' is a strong symbol of her rebellion, individuality, and potential frustration with societal norms. It immediately sets her apart from the perceived 'niceness' of Minster and signals her nonconformist attitude, further drawing Marty, who is stifled by conformity, to her.
How does the online bullying Lil experiences serve as a mirror or warning for Marty?
The online bullying directed at Lil demonstrates the harsh consequences of being different in Minster, acting as a stark warning for Marty. It forces Marty to confront the potential social repercussions she might face if she, too, chooses to step out of line, making her decision to embrace authenticity a more courageous act.
What does 'stepping out of line, taking a chance ... and beginning to break free' specifically entail for Marty?
For Marty, this entails rejecting the future her mother and Sarah envision, challenging the social norms of Minster, and forging genuine connections based on honesty rather than performative niceness. It means embracing her true desires and identity, even if it leads to social disapproval or personal discomfort.
Are there any subtle clues about Marty's true personality before Lil's arrival?
Yes, Marty's internal monologue reveals her restlessness and her description of the Hot Shot celebration as 'totally awful,' despite her role in decorating it, are subtle clues. These moments show her underlying dissatisfaction and critical perspective, hinting at the authentic self beneath her 'nice' exterior.
How does the novel explore the theme of identity through Marty's relationships?
Marty's relationships serve as crucial mirrors for her identity. Her interactions with her controlling mother and frenemy Sarah highlight the identity imposed upon her, while her evolving connection with Lil allows her to explore and embrace a more authentic self, revealing how different relationships shape and reflect who she truly is.
What is the symbolic significance of Lil living in a 'weird trailer with her mother'?
Lil's living situation, a 'weird trailer,' symbolizes her outsider status and her detachment from the conventional, established homes and social structures of Minster. It reinforces her difference and hints at a less stable or traditional background, further setting her apart from Marty's seemingly perfect, but stifling, existence.
Does the novel offer a clear resolution to Marty's internal conflict, or is it more about the journey?
The synopsis suggests the novel focuses on the 'moments in life when you step out of line, take a chance ... and begin to break free,' implying a journey of initiation rather than a fully resolved endpoint. Marty's story is likely about the crucial first steps towards self-liberation and authenticity, leaving room for continued growth beyond the narrative.
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